Sandy's Journey of Faith: God is With You

Sunday, January 3, 2010

God is With You

If you have cancer, divorce, or a loss of job, January can be a scary month. When you get to April or July, the year is flying by and thoughts of the future may not weigh as heavy as when you are pondering life ahead of you in the month of January. January is the month of goal setting. Vacation dreams are planned. Lifestyle changes are made to eat healthy and exercise more. January can be a little daunting.

I am struggling right now with thoughts of the future. It does not help when things are going on in my body that cause me concern. I have had numbing in my feet and finger tips, and achy legs at night. I have a very low red blood count that may cause me to have a blood transfusion in the next couple of weeks. Next week I have my scans that will tell me how the chemo is holding the cancer. It is all kind of unsettling. All of the fun and reflection of 2009 has turned into questions like, "what will happen in 2010?"

Behold, I am with you and will keep you wherever you go. Genesis 28:15

It is truly a comfort to know that God walks with us wherever we go. When we walk down those dark valleys, He is there. When we are confused or scared, He is there. When we are enjoying time with family and friends, He is there. Not only is He there for us, but He is working on our behalf! My heart and soul knows that God has great plans for 2010, just like he did for 2009. He wants me to be at peace, and have hope for tomorrow.

Choose to love the Lord your God and to obey him and to cling to him, for he is your life and the length of your days. Deuteronomy 30:19

We have to choose to turn our life over to God and let Him navigate us through the years. He is always there for us, but we need to make the choice as to whether we will let Him be in the drivers seat. When I come to the point of trusting in God's plan, not my own, then the next step is to not think too far ahead about the unsettling parts of my life. God does not want me to worry about what my scans will reveal in March or May, or if chemo will interfere with vacation time. He wants me to take comfort in knowing that He has it all worked out.

It is hard not to look into the future and wonder what joys and challenges are ahead. Whatever lies ahead, I know I have a God that will take care of the small details and the large. I am in his loving care. I would rather do things His way than my own.

Heavenly Father,
I thank you for the life you have given me. I choose to serve you, love you, and cling to you. You have my days planned, and that gives me peace. You are my life and the length of my days. Thank you for providing for me in such incredible ways.

Love,
Sandy

The Salvation Prayer

This prayer is an example of what to say to Jesus when you want Him to come into your heart. It is a humble statement between you and God that recognizes that we all fall short of being good enough to face God on our own. Jesus had to pay the price for our sins so we could come before God pure and blameless. You don't need to clean up your life before you pray this prayer. Jesus will come in and help you draw close to him.

Lord Jesus, I need You. Thank You for dying on the cross for my sins. I open the door of my life and receive You as my Savior and Lord. Thank You for forgiving my sins and giving me eternal life. Take control of the throne of my life. Make me the kind of person You want me to be.

My Journey (Revised 07/12/13)

Romans 8:28 says that in everything, God works for the good for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose.

This is often a tough verse to swallow. We see our life falling down around us due to finances, broken relationships, or disease, and it becomes difficult to trust that God can work through these trials if we look for His purpose and trust in Him. There are times when it seems impossible for God to work anything for the good because things are so bad.

I was diagnosed with cancer in April 2007 when I had a stiff neck that would not go away. For four months I tried chiropractic care, massages, and stretching to try and loosen the knots that were all over my neck and down into my upper back. The stiff neck made sense to me because we had moved into a new house and I thought I had strained something.

Four months later I could not stand the pain any longer. I went back to my trusted chiropractor and he sent me to have an MRI. It was through that test that he saw something horribly wrong. My C5 vertebrae was gone, and my neck had collapsed! He called my husband and I into his office and told us the news that would change our life. There was some type of disease in my neck. He suspected that it was metastatic breast cancer.

We contacted City of Hope, and they asked me to get a bone scan. My life plunged further into darkness when the test came back showing lesions all over my bones. Several tests later, a small tumor in my breast was found, and I was officially diagnosed with stage 4 metastatic breast cancer. It is incurable.

My family decended into the valley of the shadow of death. It was a dark and painful time, and all of our lives changed forever. However, it was during that time God revealed His purpose for me. I have cherished my relationship with God all of my life. Because I had a spiritual foundation, when the bottom of my world dropped out from under me, I had a loving God to catch me. In many ways I feel that God had prepared me for this battle my entire life.

We shared the news with more family and friends, and the prayer support was amazing. I visualized the "switchboard in heaven" completely lit up with prayers for me. We tried to keep up the communication with everyone via e-mail, but a better solution came to mind.

On the eve of my surgery to repair my neck at City of Hope, I started a Blog, and called it "Sandy's Journey of Faith." Little did I know that this was the gift and ministry that God had been training me for. It started with us giving updates, and then turned into a forum in which I could share my faith as I walked hand in hand with Jesus through this trial. Jon would sometimes be a guest writer, and we were getting lots of interest and encouragement from everyone to keep it up.

I am still in awe that I can continue to write and share the ups and downs of living with cancer in such a powerful way. God uses our technology for His glory. I am just the typist, but God is the true writer of this Blog. There are often times when I wake up in the middle of the night (when it is the most quiet) and just start writing something that God has placed on my heart. It is a humbling journey to know that the God of this Universe cares about my Blog, and can use it.

I am forever thankful for the brilliant, and compassionate doctors at City of Hope. I trust them to do what is necessary to give me a good quality of life. My cancer journey has been a roller coaster of chemotherapy, radiation, surgeries, and on going treatments. I believe that God brings doctors into our lives to help us, but He is the ultimate physician, and I have seen miraculous healing as well.

My journey still involves metastasized cancer. God has His reasons for not healing me, and I have learned that His road for me is better that mine. Through it all, I have grown personally closer to Jesus, and I have seen miracles in the lives of people around me that are better gifts that the healing of cancer. When a loved one comes to know this amazing and loving God that I worship, my cancer journey is worth it.

There are hundreds of promises that God has made to those He calls His own. My favorite promise is from Hebrews 13:5 "I will never leave you or forsake you." I can say, without hesitation, that God has never left my side throughout this journey of mine. Sometimes the answers have come slower than I would have liked, and often times not in the way I would have envisioned, but God's love is constant and unconditional.

God has taken a broken vessel (me), and has shown His light through the cracks. I am humbled and thankful that you took time to read this Blog. I pray that it has inspired you to seek out a relationship with the one who went to the cross so that you can be free. Jesus makes promises, and He never breaks them.

-Sandy Boulware

Prayer for Salvation

There is not specific prayer that needs to be prayed word for word. It is just a humble statement between you and Jesus as you recognize all that He did because of His love for you. You don't need to clean up your life before saying this prayer. Jesus will help you find a way, through faith, to draw closer to Him.

Lord Jesus, I need You. Thank You for dying on the cross for my sins. I open the door of my life and receive You as my Savior and Lord. Thank You for forgiving my sins and giving me eternal life. Take control of the throne of my life. Make me the kind of person You want me to be.