Sandy's Journey of Faith: Feeling Better

Saturday, December 22, 2007

Feeling Better

Thank you to everyone for their prayers and concern this week. I am slowly getting mobility back in my right arm, and I have not had to take pain medication since my shot on Thursday morning. I am still searching for a reason why I had to go through this set back this week. Was there something I needed to learn from it, or someones path I needed to be in? I certainly could have gone without the drama that came about due to my arm freezing up on me. As you can imagine, all the doctors are booked and/or wrapping up business before Christmas. I knew in my heart that I needed to do whatever it took to get that shot of cortizone so that I could have a chance at feeling normal for my family at Christmas. What is normal now? I played a friendly game of ping pong the night before. I really didn't dive for balls too many times! Seriously, I don't know what brought it on, though I have found that menopausal women can suffer from a frozen shoulder syndrome. I do know that I am so thankful for my precious friend Cindy Axton who drove me to City of Hope ER, and sat with me for over three hours. I am also deeply thankful for Dr. Crocitto, my sweet angel, who interceded for me and was my advocate on getting my arm treated. If it were not for her, I would not have had the shot and would still be in pain. Dr. Laura also sat with me and helped me think through some things that had been weighing on my mind.

How can I bring this around to a lesson at Christmas? Our minister, Jim Miller, reminded us last week that Joseph was looking forward to a life of stability and normalcy. His life was interrupted by an angel and would never be the same. But because Joseph was open to doing it God's way, his life was better and he was part of the greatest miracle of all time. My family's life has been interrupted this year, and it seems like just when we are moving on in a "new normal" kind of way, then something else pops up. I have to keep reminding myself that God is going before me and will make the rough places smooth, but I still admit I sometimes don't get it when I am in the middle of a crisis.

"I will go before you and make the crooked places straight." Isaiah 45:2

Despite the detour, we are counting down the days until Christmas. The stockings are hung, and the shopping is done. A little more wrapping is in store this weekend. I will let Jon figure that out via this blog. (hint) We have enjoyed receiving all of your beautiful Christmas cards. One of our traditions is to pray over each card that we receive. The girls enjoy praying for their friends as much as we do.

If it gets too busy and we don't get another chance to make a posting before Christmas, just know that we think about this blog every day and thank God for the way it has blessed our lives. Our entire family feels covered in prayer.

Merry Christmas!
Sandy

The Salvation Prayer

This prayer is an example of what to say to Jesus when you want Him to come into your heart. It is a humble statement between you and God that recognizes that we all fall short of being good enough to face God on our own. Jesus had to pay the price for our sins so we could come before God pure and blameless. You don't need to clean up your life before you pray this prayer. Jesus will come in and help you draw close to him.

Lord Jesus, I need You. Thank You for dying on the cross for my sins. I open the door of my life and receive You as my Savior and Lord. Thank You for forgiving my sins and giving me eternal life. Take control of the throne of my life. Make me the kind of person You want me to be.

My Journey (Revised 07/12/13)

Romans 8:28 says that in everything, God works for the good for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose.

This is often a tough verse to swallow. We see our life falling down around us due to finances, broken relationships, or disease, and it becomes difficult to trust that God can work through these trials if we look for His purpose and trust in Him. There are times when it seems impossible for God to work anything for the good because things are so bad.

I was diagnosed with cancer in April 2007 when I had a stiff neck that would not go away. For four months I tried chiropractic care, massages, and stretching to try and loosen the knots that were all over my neck and down into my upper back. The stiff neck made sense to me because we had moved into a new house and I thought I had strained something.

Four months later I could not stand the pain any longer. I went back to my trusted chiropractor and he sent me to have an MRI. It was through that test that he saw something horribly wrong. My C5 vertebrae was gone, and my neck had collapsed! He called my husband and I into his office and told us the news that would change our life. There was some type of disease in my neck. He suspected that it was metastatic breast cancer.

We contacted City of Hope, and they asked me to get a bone scan. My life plunged further into darkness when the test came back showing lesions all over my bones. Several tests later, a small tumor in my breast was found, and I was officially diagnosed with stage 4 metastatic breast cancer. It is incurable.

My family decended into the valley of the shadow of death. It was a dark and painful time, and all of our lives changed forever. However, it was during that time God revealed His purpose for me. I have cherished my relationship with God all of my life. Because I had a spiritual foundation, when the bottom of my world dropped out from under me, I had a loving God to catch me. In many ways I feel that God had prepared me for this battle my entire life.

We shared the news with more family and friends, and the prayer support was amazing. I visualized the "switchboard in heaven" completely lit up with prayers for me. We tried to keep up the communication with everyone via e-mail, but a better solution came to mind.

On the eve of my surgery to repair my neck at City of Hope, I started a Blog, and called it "Sandy's Journey of Faith." Little did I know that this was the gift and ministry that God had been training me for. It started with us giving updates, and then turned into a forum in which I could share my faith as I walked hand in hand with Jesus through this trial. Jon would sometimes be a guest writer, and we were getting lots of interest and encouragement from everyone to keep it up.

I am still in awe that I can continue to write and share the ups and downs of living with cancer in such a powerful way. God uses our technology for His glory. I am just the typist, but God is the true writer of this Blog. There are often times when I wake up in the middle of the night (when it is the most quiet) and just start writing something that God has placed on my heart. It is a humbling journey to know that the God of this Universe cares about my Blog, and can use it.

I am forever thankful for the brilliant, and compassionate doctors at City of Hope. I trust them to do what is necessary to give me a good quality of life. My cancer journey has been a roller coaster of chemotherapy, radiation, surgeries, and on going treatments. I believe that God brings doctors into our lives to help us, but He is the ultimate physician, and I have seen miraculous healing as well.

My journey still involves metastasized cancer. God has His reasons for not healing me, and I have learned that His road for me is better that mine. Through it all, I have grown personally closer to Jesus, and I have seen miracles in the lives of people around me that are better gifts that the healing of cancer. When a loved one comes to know this amazing and loving God that I worship, my cancer journey is worth it.

There are hundreds of promises that God has made to those He calls His own. My favorite promise is from Hebrews 13:5 "I will never leave you or forsake you." I can say, without hesitation, that God has never left my side throughout this journey of mine. Sometimes the answers have come slower than I would have liked, and often times not in the way I would have envisioned, but God's love is constant and unconditional.

God has taken a broken vessel (me), and has shown His light through the cracks. I am humbled and thankful that you took time to read this Blog. I pray that it has inspired you to seek out a relationship with the one who went to the cross so that you can be free. Jesus makes promises, and He never breaks them.

-Sandy Boulware

Prayer for Salvation

There is not specific prayer that needs to be prayed word for word. It is just a humble statement between you and Jesus as you recognize all that He did because of His love for you. You don't need to clean up your life before saying this prayer. Jesus will help you find a way, through faith, to draw closer to Him.

Lord Jesus, I need You. Thank You for dying on the cross for my sins. I open the door of my life and receive You as my Savior and Lord. Thank You for forgiving my sins and giving me eternal life. Take control of the throne of my life. Make me the kind of person You want me to be.