Jon and I attended a funeral last week for a man who was amazing at helping others. We barely new Bob in 1999, but when Jon was in an accident, Bob came to our door about three times offering to mow the lawn or do something around the house to help. In 2006, Bob helped us move (twice), and when I had neck surgery he brought a meal to us. Bob always had a huge grin and was very sincere and kind.
The church was packed, standing room only, for the service for Bob. I am willing to bet that if we all stood up and talked about the ways Bob helped us in times of need, we would have been there two days. Bob was loved, and I pray that he knew how much. I have thought a lot about Bob since hearing of his death. I think I am most sad that I never did a fraction for him of what he did for us. Bob's legacy will be his beautiful family, but also this idea of servanthood that he so humbly possessed.
I have given you an example, that you should do as I have done to you. John 13:15
This verse is from the final conversation that Jesus had with his disciples. He wanted to show them his love for them by taking his own garment and washing their feet. This was shocking to them because only slaves washed feet. Jesus wanted them to see what an act of servanthood looked like.
If I then, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also ought to wash one another's feet. John 13:14
What would our world look like if we all were looking for ways to help others? There is something deeply satisfying when you help someone and nobody knows about it or there is no accolades for your act of kindness. Sometimes it is reaching for a quarter when the person in front of you comes up short at the grocery store. Sometimes it is feeding the homeless or giving food to a food pantry.
I really loved the movie Pay it Forward, and the idea that when someone does something for you, you should look to pay it forward to someone else. Lately, we have had an outpouring of love and support with meals and help with the kids. It is a real testament to the loving spirit people have around us. It has definitely taught our family something new about reaching out to others who are suffering.
Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others. Philippians 2:3
My prayer is that God will open my eyes and heart so that I can know when to take action.
Love,
Sandy
