Sandy's Journey of Faith: Be Secure

Thursday, March 13, 2008

Be Secure

I was talking to my daughter, Rachel, the other day about self confidence. It is a hard concept for young people because there is always someone out there who is hoping to knock them down. We all have insecurities that we deal with. Does my outfit look good? Does my house measure up? Why didn't I get invited to that party? Do my friends like me?

My conversation with Rachel reminded me of something that happened to me a long time ago when I was working at Libbey Glass. I don't really remember all that was happening in my life at the time, I just remember feeling very insecure and worthless. Perhaps I crunched a wrong number at work, or I was feeling jealous over something that someone else had. Whatever the reason (or reasons), I was praying and asking God to help me be a better person. I started work at the time when it was still dark outside. There were not very many cars getting off my exit at 6:20 a.m., so I would recognize certain cars in the morning who were on the same schedule as me. This particular morning, I was praying and really bashing myself and feeling quite miserable. As I prayed a prayer for God to help me, I looked at the car ahead of me and the personalized license plate said, "Be Secure." It felt like it had a spotlight on it! I looked again at the car. It did not have any advertisement on the side having to do with a business of some kind. It was funny that the car had that message on the license. Now, you may think I am crazy, but I took that as a message from God! From that moment, I went into my day feeling very special that God would have an empowering message for me. The message carried me through the week, and before I knew it, I was believing the message and I had gotten my confidence back. I never saw that car again.

I have always said that Rachel is like me, but better. It took me a long time to have the confidence that she already has. Rachel is very tall, yet she has beautiful posture that shows off her confidence. Jon and I try to instill confidence in her so that she can be secure in "her world."
It is funny what the definition of "Popular" is in school. I think there are far too many insecure children out there who just want to be accepted, and they make poor decisions because of insecurities. I make poor decisions as an adult when I get insecure!

God wants us to be secure in His love. We were created by Him, and He does not make junk! Look at His beautiful promises in scripture.

"Be bold and strong...for remember, the Lord your God is with you wherever you go".
Joshua 1:9

"I praise you for I am fearfully and wonderfully made". Psalm 139:14

"I can do all things through Him who strengthens me". Philippians 4:13

I hope you feel secure in God's love for you. He loves you so much, He wants to have a relationship with you. He also did the ultimate sacrafice, He sent His Son down into our world so we could relate to Him and see in flesh and blood what love is all about. As Easter approaches this coming week, I hope you feel the magnitude of God's love for you.

Securely Yours,
Sandy
P.S. Jon's father is doing well. The procedure was done yesterday, and they got the stint in through the cancer, which should open up his stomach so he can eat. Thanks for the prayers!

The Salvation Prayer

This prayer is an example of what to say to Jesus when you want Him to come into your heart. It is a humble statement between you and God that recognizes that we all fall short of being good enough to face God on our own. Jesus had to pay the price for our sins so we could come before God pure and blameless. You don't need to clean up your life before you pray this prayer. Jesus will come in and help you draw close to him.

Lord Jesus, I need You. Thank You for dying on the cross for my sins. I open the door of my life and receive You as my Savior and Lord. Thank You for forgiving my sins and giving me eternal life. Take control of the throne of my life. Make me the kind of person You want me to be.

My Journey (Revised 07/12/13)

Romans 8:28 says that in everything, God works for the good for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose.

This is often a tough verse to swallow. We see our life falling down around us due to finances, broken relationships, or disease, and it becomes difficult to trust that God can work through these trials if we look for His purpose and trust in Him. There are times when it seems impossible for God to work anything for the good because things are so bad.

I was diagnosed with cancer in April 2007 when I had a stiff neck that would not go away. For four months I tried chiropractic care, massages, and stretching to try and loosen the knots that were all over my neck and down into my upper back. The stiff neck made sense to me because we had moved into a new house and I thought I had strained something.

Four months later I could not stand the pain any longer. I went back to my trusted chiropractor and he sent me to have an MRI. It was through that test that he saw something horribly wrong. My C5 vertebrae was gone, and my neck had collapsed! He called my husband and I into his office and told us the news that would change our life. There was some type of disease in my neck. He suspected that it was metastatic breast cancer.

We contacted City of Hope, and they asked me to get a bone scan. My life plunged further into darkness when the test came back showing lesions all over my bones. Several tests later, a small tumor in my breast was found, and I was officially diagnosed with stage 4 metastatic breast cancer. It is incurable.

My family decended into the valley of the shadow of death. It was a dark and painful time, and all of our lives changed forever. However, it was during that time God revealed His purpose for me. I have cherished my relationship with God all of my life. Because I had a spiritual foundation, when the bottom of my world dropped out from under me, I had a loving God to catch me. In many ways I feel that God had prepared me for this battle my entire life.

We shared the news with more family and friends, and the prayer support was amazing. I visualized the "switchboard in heaven" completely lit up with prayers for me. We tried to keep up the communication with everyone via e-mail, but a better solution came to mind.

On the eve of my surgery to repair my neck at City of Hope, I started a Blog, and called it "Sandy's Journey of Faith." Little did I know that this was the gift and ministry that God had been training me for. It started with us giving updates, and then turned into a forum in which I could share my faith as I walked hand in hand with Jesus through this trial. Jon would sometimes be a guest writer, and we were getting lots of interest and encouragement from everyone to keep it up.

I am still in awe that I can continue to write and share the ups and downs of living with cancer in such a powerful way. God uses our technology for His glory. I am just the typist, but God is the true writer of this Blog. There are often times when I wake up in the middle of the night (when it is the most quiet) and just start writing something that God has placed on my heart. It is a humbling journey to know that the God of this Universe cares about my Blog, and can use it.

I am forever thankful for the brilliant, and compassionate doctors at City of Hope. I trust them to do what is necessary to give me a good quality of life. My cancer journey has been a roller coaster of chemotherapy, radiation, surgeries, and on going treatments. I believe that God brings doctors into our lives to help us, but He is the ultimate physician, and I have seen miraculous healing as well.

My journey still involves metastasized cancer. God has His reasons for not healing me, and I have learned that His road for me is better that mine. Through it all, I have grown personally closer to Jesus, and I have seen miracles in the lives of people around me that are better gifts that the healing of cancer. When a loved one comes to know this amazing and loving God that I worship, my cancer journey is worth it.

There are hundreds of promises that God has made to those He calls His own. My favorite promise is from Hebrews 13:5 "I will never leave you or forsake you." I can say, without hesitation, that God has never left my side throughout this journey of mine. Sometimes the answers have come slower than I would have liked, and often times not in the way I would have envisioned, but God's love is constant and unconditional.

God has taken a broken vessel (me), and has shown His light through the cracks. I am humbled and thankful that you took time to read this Blog. I pray that it has inspired you to seek out a relationship with the one who went to the cross so that you can be free. Jesus makes promises, and He never breaks them.

-Sandy Boulware

Prayer for Salvation

There is not specific prayer that needs to be prayed word for word. It is just a humble statement between you and Jesus as you recognize all that He did because of His love for you. You don't need to clean up your life before saying this prayer. Jesus will help you find a way, through faith, to draw closer to Him.

Lord Jesus, I need You. Thank You for dying on the cross for my sins. I open the door of my life and receive You as my Savior and Lord. Thank You for forgiving my sins and giving me eternal life. Take control of the throne of my life. Make me the kind of person You want me to be.